Tuesday, July 1, 2014

WHAT ARE YOU SCARED OF / WHAT ARE YOU FEARFUL OF? (PART 2)

From Part 1 of this Article : “Not being able to do what one wants to do – more than half the time, is due to Fear, Doubt, one’s Hesitant-nature which then results in Lack of Self Confidence – thus, UNACTION, and thus NO RESULT…L

Fear of being Rejected – Fear of being Ridiculed – Fear of Losing a Friend/Friendship
So much FEAR – what is this – are we living in the Dinosaur Age, or what?

That we have so much fear infused in our systems…
Fear arises when there is constant battle between the Mind and the Heart…

The Heart is fearless, but the Not-So Clever Mind is always on the lookout for hidden traps, and when the Heart and Mind exchange views, it results in FEAR…

Take this pill and you will be relieved of all fear – from now on, SAY what you Heart tells you to say, DO what your heart tells you to do, ACT based on what your heart tells you to do…its so simple…

Falling in love is a beautiful process – in fact its a continuous process – its happening all the time, without us being aware about it…
We fall in love with the pet animals around us, we fall in love with the beautiful flowers, we fall in love with the sunset (and sunrise), we fall in love with the drizzle of the rain, we fall in love with the innocence of the child….Oh my…

But alas, we fail to fall in love with Life itself and its wonders… and its surprises and its unpredictability…and its Spontaneity…
Please allow LOVE to flow through you, spontaneously, with no shadow of Fear…

Try taking the step of loving Life once again, and you will be relieved of all fear…J

WHAT ARE YOU SCARED OF / WHAT ARE YOU FEARFUL OF? (PART 1)

They both mean the same thing – just a different choice of words.

Do you know that most of our ‘Un-actions’ is due to FEAR…
Un-action – taking no action at all although surroundings have begun to signal for an action – its like sitting on a conveyor belt – where one does not move, but is somehow ‘moved’…

Not being able to do what one wants to do – more than half the time, is due to Fear, Doubt, and one's Hesitant-nature which then results in Lack of Self Confidence – thus, UNACTION, and thus NO RESULT…L
Some of us are fearful of Death, the others of Debt, the others of Divorce, and some Dearth

One of the above does surround us at some point of time or the other….

But the Beauty of Life only starts to blossom when you ‘bypass’ the fear all these’ Big Ds’…

In these days, DEBT is a much dreaded word, but yet most spoken about..
But what is a DEBT in the real sense – in simple words, Debt materializes when one with more resources decides to ‘lend’ some of his resources to the other…obviously with a small price to it,
eg interest payment…

 
Do you still remember the childhood days when you had borrowed some money from your friend and after a day or two, returned it back to him…that was a DEBT…
But we never really heard about the word then…

But life today has become so complex and complicated…thanks to these ‘Big Ds’..
Why do we fear DEBT – by the way, the good news is , these unpaid Debts that we had obtained in a rightful manner do not follow us to eternity …if you ‘depart’ before settling your house loan, its ok – they won’t come after you in heaven/hell..:)

Well, if you have a debt – just pay them up – you can take your time to pay it or pay them up immediately, if you are able to…
I am sure, if you have taken a debt, it must be for a worthy reason, etc...

So, no need to justify to anyone…
Think of the joy, happiness and relief you derived when you had utilized the borrowed funds to fulfil the objective of obtaining it in the first place – be it an entry to the university for your education, be it for a medical bill for an old parent or be it for a self-holiday or self-honeymoon, as some may call it…

There is actually very little reason to be phobic about debts - all you have to do is PAY towards it.
And somehow Nature will find means for us to meet these debt obligations…

That's all. Period.